How to get a nerd like you

Lately more and more girls are falling for the kinds of guys called "nerds". Just get rid of the glasses and complete cutie right? Of course you might think its easy to get a nerd to like you, but somehow its not working. Here's how to do it.

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   Get to know what he likes, don't assume he's the stereotypical "nerd". You might have some things in common, and if you don't, keep your mind open. Still, make sure you don't lie or agree with everything he says. Ex. If he says "I love MC Lars" but you haven't heard MC Lars before, don't say "I do too!" instead say, "Cool, I haven't listened to him before though, but when I do I'll let you know what I think of it."
   
   
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   If he cracks a joke laugh with him. Even if it's not that funny, a little chuckle is good. Of course, no one wants to see you a giggling fool just because he said something.
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   DON'T tell your friends. Just like with all boys, this can be a turnoff for him. How would you like it if some guy's friends kept giggling and pointing when you walked by?
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   Flirt. If you don't want people to see you touching him like that, hugging is an option. Just don't make the hug 5 minutes long; he probably has to go somewhere.
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   Talk with him online. Getting his email address and myspace might make it less awkward if you want to ask him if he wants to hang out.
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   Be aware that nerds may have a tendency to be over careful with relationships, they've been through bad experiences and don't want to fall lower on the social chain. It may or may not take time for the nerd to feel neutral or positive to you.
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   Dress casually, it might seem weird that all of a sudden your all prepped up whenever you might see him.
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   Enjoy spending time with him, even if you realize the relationship you wanted might not work out, you and him will be great friends!
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   Learn about things of his interest even if they aren't your interest.
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    The majority of nerds fall in love with, well, other nerds. So this might be difficult if you're a completely preppy individual. This doesn't mean change yourself so they'll like you. Be yourself!

1. First you need to become hot. (I wrote an article on how to become hot) You need a sexy attitude, you need to be in shape, and you need to look decent. Once you have those things the rest it easy.
   
   
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   "Accidentally" run into you crush. Maybe at lunch or outside or at a park. If the person walks home or spends time at a skate park, "run" into them there. Say "hi" to them. Hopefully they will say hi to you.
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   The next time you see them ask them how they are. Keep it short and to the point. The key is to be very casual. You don't want the person to know that you like them.
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   Each time you see them, make the conversation a bit longer. You ask the person about himself/herself or tell a little about yourself.
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   Once you are able to have 5 minute conversation with them, then you might ask if the person if they want to hang out with you sometime. If they say yes, hang out with the person in a public place first. Make sure they have an enjoyable time. YOU MAY BE TEMPTED TO MAKE YOU MOVE HERE BUT DON'T! If they enjoyed it, ask the person if he/she wants to hang out with you again. They will probably say yes. If the person said no to you the first time, don't worry. Say that's OK and you want to go to the mall instead. Don't be bummed or the person will know you like them. Try again about one week later.
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   If your crush agreed to hang out with you in a public place and you two had a nice time, and want to hang out with you again, make it an ice cream place or somewhere a little less public. DO NOT MAKE YOUR MOVE HERE EITHER! Buy the person something that is under $10. If this is an enjoyable time, and the person wants to hang out with you again, then you pretty much have them hooked. If the person asks you out, then turn them down and say you are dating someone else, even if you aren't. Now they will want you even more. People often want what they can't have.
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   Now you need to find someone to flirt with. Maybe your best friend's boyfriend/girlfriend will agree to fake flirt. Make sure your crush is around and flirt with the fake flirt person. Don't kiss them. Hug them and talk to them. If you are a guy, and it is OK to hold your fake date's waist then do that, but not for very long. If you are a girl and it is OK with your fake date, you can touch them on the chest for about 5 seconds and run you hand through his hair. You don't want to be too serious about it though. DO NOT KISS THE FAKE DATE! Your crush will be watching and might get jealous. That is the point.
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   If your crush is serious about you then they will pursue you. If they ask you out again, then say maybe and you'll think about. Tell them yes between and hour and three hours after they asked you out.

• Do not under any circumstances, tell him you like him if you think he doesnt like you. If you do you could seem pushy and he will definetely say no. sometimes acting differant arround him than others is a good thing.
• You can't get everyone to notice you. Remember that guys come and go, so do not stress yourself if things do not work out in your favor. The world is a really big place, and you'd do well to remember it.
• Being too obsessive can do the opposite of what you want to achieve, pushing him farther away. Under the category "Love", obsession or suspicion doesn't fall in. That is "Infatuation".
• If he just won't become attracted to you, leave it alone. Do not push it, or things might get ugly, and you'll earn a bad reputation.
• Don't show off too much flesh, especially if he would always look. Always keep him under suspense. Also modesty shows that you are a lady. He will see that you don't need to show off, and in return the right kind of guy will give you his respect.
• Do you like cocky people? Self-centered people? Bossy people? In-your-face people? If not, then avoid being any of those, because he probably feels the same way. Don't boast about yourself constantly [he'll think you're nuts], don't think only for your benefit, don't push him around too often [especially when you're doing something in a team], and don't always ask questions about him or you.
• If he doesn't seem to be getting all the hints after a week or two that's okay. It doesn't mean he doesn't like you; it just means he may not be ready for a girlfriend right now or that he is too shy to show emotion back. If after maybe 3 months of being flirty then he probably isn't into you as much, it could still change. It's completely up to you how far you'll go, how hard you'll try, how long you want to keep it up, etc.
• Don't act like a snob to impress him. He will think you are obnoxious. Also, don't be clingy or bother him. He will try to avoid you or think you are annoying, and you don't want that.
• You always have to be yourself no matter what. If you act like someone else you could end up with a guy you don't like.
• Don't force him to like you. If he doesn't, don't feel too bad, he's the one who's missing out. Let him meet you halfway at least. Like everything else, things can change over night. Sometimes you need to give him some space to think about the idea of you & him. It'll take you a while to figure out how you'll try to get his attention in a positive way, so give him some time to find a reaction that he sees fit.
• If he is in the popular clique, don't try to join in the group. If you do, they'll probably talk about you behind your back. This could start rumors, and he may not defend you. You know how cliques are, right? They prefer keeping people inside who stand by their beliefs.
• Wish you the best of luck, and remember that whatever happens, no one can change who you really are.
• If you are under pressure, just relax, kick back and maybe rehearse a few lines, but feel free to make up something, as long as it sounds nice. Don't do the perfume on the arm and ask him to smell your arm.
• For some reason, girls think guys notice him if you're loud. Don't shriek so loud you hurt the eardrums of the person next to you. It's not going to do anything, anyway. Just walk up to him and talk to him, but you don't need to be loud.
• Make sure you listen to him and not just keep babbling about yourself maybe you could learn a little more about the guy you like than just his hair color, eye color etc.
• Clinging is not right. You don't need to sit with him every day and take up an instrument because he does. Sure, he might be impressed, but ultimately it's your life. You need to learn how to balance your time. Don't sacrifice just to get a guy.

• Being too straightforward might mean leaving him bored. One way to get someone's attention is to make him curious, and that means leaving him guessing to some degree.
• React to his jokes. If they aren't funny, just smile a little and bat him playfully on the arm, and say, "Hilarious." In your real life, you use sarcasm, right? You should look natural.
• Be mysterious; keep him guessing. Don't overdo this; it will make him frustrated (not to mention confused) if you do it too much.
• You have to be able to know how to not be so serious.be laid back, be fun.
• Never ask him out through a friend. He'll be creeped out and he might just say no.
• Remember that the boys rarely get asked out because they're the ones who usually do the asking. Take a risk and ask him out. On the negative, he might feel flattered and politely decline. But the positive outweighs the negative. He probably has never gotten asked out by a girl. When you ask him out, you're differentiating yourself. He'll notice and feel complimented, you'll make him feel great about himself and about you, and you'll stand out in his mind. Also, if you've read the signs already and have a feeling that he might already like you (but maybe he's shy) the odds are very high that he'll agree to go out with you.
• Be Outgoing and make small talk every once in awhile. Just remember not to be nosy, though.
• Chocolate releases another chemical that makes you feel very happy. Try it. But,not in excess.
• If you want a guy to notice you, you have to do something really unexpected. Something you can do is when you are talking to him kiss him out of nowhere. If he doesn't back off, you have been noticed. Use this tip very sparingly, however.
• Sometimes when a guy knows you like him, they start to feel the same way. It may sound desperate but telling one of his friends you like him means that he will soon find out. This will make the guy you like look at you differently and possibly start liking you back...it happens.
• Learn to joke about things. Don't be an obnoxious freak, but learn to be a little bit humorous; guys find that attractive. Whether your humor is sarcasm, clever/wittiness, just being quirky and weird, or telling hilarious stories, just be your self and learn to laugh. Don't take life so seriously.
• If he's the kind of person that will fall down and play dead and just lie there while playing games, get down on your knees and feel his pulse on his wrist. Say you can't feel it, even if you can, then move your hand to his neck and gently rub his neck as if trying to find the pulse, and maybe even use your other hand to turn his face over if he's not facing your direction. He will think about you and yours hands on his neck for a long time after wards.
• Don't let him get away with using you.

How to get a guy notice you

If you're in love with a guy, you have to get him to love you back. "How do you do that?", you may ask yourself. First you have to give him hints. Then you have to become friends with him. One day ask him, Observe and see if you match and if you do not then don't change just for one guy, as it is worth it. And if you are like what he wants a girl to be then do this:

1. Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don't try to get a guy to look your way, you want attention and you want to feel good about yourself. You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation.

2. Something you should consider is letting him know you are single. Wearing a "single bracelet" will do the trick and they are stylish.

3. Be Yourself . Everyone probably says this, but it's true. No guy wants a girl that pretends like she is something she is not. Show him that you are a good friend. Listen to the music he listens to. Just don't come on too clingy. No boy wants a girl who just follows him around all day. In addition, if you want to find out more about him, don't stalk the poor guy. Just find out about him from his friends you trust. For example, ask them about his likes and dislikes, what music he is into, what concerts he goes to, if he likes anyone, etc. Be confident in yourself, and it will show that you are an amazing person. Don't be someone you're not. You want him to like you for you.

4.Try to become his friend. Get to know him better. Yes, you might like him, but first, become his friend. Start liking things that he likes, but don't get too much involved. He might become too crowded. First, try by asking him questions. Don't take it wrong if he says something bad about what you like. That's just his opinion, so don't want to do that because he will like you better just try something different, but don't stop doing what you like to do, because he might like someone who does what they like; if he doesn't like you for who you are, then let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while. Because variety might be the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try being that girl who is different from all the other okay looking girls. Give him the eyes, because "beauty is common, but a good outlook and great energy are very rare." guys love when girls look them in the eyes.

5. Smile and make eye contact. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life.The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.

6.Be cute. He will come over and talk to you. Don't be a total wallflower, but if you're just reading a magazine, try and look cute and wait until he can't resist and he might ask what book you're reading. and take the conversation on from there.

7. Flirt.Do it as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting especially with other guys will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way. Don't do too much, but not too little either. Sometimes you might look too girlie, popular, wanna-be etc. If he reacts and you don't think its real, he's just doing it because you're there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do better, but let him know he can't. If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know you don't think he is 'all that'. For example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego.

8.Start up conversations that have to do with if it's where you are or if he's talking to you. Make sure you don't go on about nothing. Definitely make sense when you talk to him. Don't twirl your hair, flick your eyelashes or giggle nonstop. He can get kind of scared and make fun of you, no matter how old you are, guys will always be the same. Be Yourself.Just be who you are, that's the #1 quality guys look for in a girl.

9.Hang out with him often but not too often ; you don't always want to be hanging around because you might look like an annoying bug that's always around and never goes away. Try to start a conversation about an interesting topic, for example, if you're at a football game, ask confidently but cutely, "Did I miss any action?". This will tell him that you want to know about the game, but also you want to get his opinion, so he will automatically talk to you about the game (or other topics) the whole game. Start slowly like a movie or party try not to make it so noticeable cause he might not be interested.

10.Make him feel special. There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.You know, guys hate girl who wear too much make up.They think it looks hot for a while but then it tends to be like this: They break up with you(think your just a doll) nd fall in love with a natural girl

11.Don't be a slob. It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair,hasn't cleaned her ears(They always look in there) or wears the same outfit every other day. Even if you don't fall within the typical expectations, just looking presentable is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.

12.Just Talk To Him. When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him will get his attention, and if it doesn't then nothing will.

13.Walk in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works. When coming out of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of him, and he should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he probably likes you.

14.If he's looking your way, give him something to look at. If he's looking at you you can.Look away shyly, making you seem mysterious because he can't figure out why you did that
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15.Don't look into his eyes, then walk away .

16.Ignore him. Let him watch you by himself. If he is looking only at you, try to share your thoughts. eg0. You are in a boring class, using your facial expression and pulled a face at the teacher then looking back at him and smile. Sharing these intimate moments makes you closer to him.

16.If you catch him sneaking glances at you, then he is probably interested and trying to keep you in his sight.

17.But most importantly, do not be indecent. Be yourself, not a plastic barbie doll. You can be beautiful without wearing skimpy tiny shorts at gym or tanks with cleavage. Guys think it's attractive, but it's not good for a relationship.

18.Find out what he likes and try to get into them to. He'll appreciate the fact you guys have things in common.

19.If you love a boy dress how he likes, but try to still be your self.

20. Guys love girls that don't act mean or make fun of others.

21.On other terms, if you discover that he's been secretly talking to another girl behind your back: do something. On a personal level, you shouldn't let him get away with treating you like that. He's most likely lost interest in you for some reason, and has decided to follow his [probably] irrational impulses, and "fallen in love" with another girl. Again, don't let him think he can get away with feeding you lies and pretending your potential relationship is okay. Giving him a piece of your mind establishes that you're an independent and knowledgeable woman, and you know what's best for you.

22.If you have never talked to this guy before, however, just smile at him when you pass by. Suttle hints like that will keep you in his mind. he will be saying "Who was she? Great smile, hair face, etc." "I need to find out who she is". He will then be dropping smiles back to you, and one thing will lead to another. I am proof that this will work. just try it out yourself. if you dont get the same results as me, just try saying a simple hi. It will show him you aren't afraid or a coward. This could make the start of great friends, which could make the start of a great boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.